Anika, 28, has always been someone her friends and family could count on for sound advice. Whether it was relationship troubles, career dilemmas, or just the daily struggles of life, Anika was there to listen and guide. But she never imagined that one day, she’d be the one seeking advice, grappling with a situation that shook her to the core. Anika sent her message to us.Anika began her letter, saying,I never thought I’d find myself in such a situation, but I’m writing this because I’m feeling lost and conflicted. I recently discovered something about my family that has been causing me sleepless nights, and I need to share it to understand if I’m overreacting or if my feelings are justified. I come from a very conservative family. My parents raised me and my younger brother in a household where traditional values were the foundation of everything. Growing
I was always taught that a girl’s role is to support her family, be a good wife, and take care of the household. I accepted this because it was all I knew, and when I married my husband, Rohan, I stepped into that role without question. My parents were proud of me for finding a good man, and they were happy that I had a stable home with him. My father would often say, ’Rohan will take care of you now; you don’t have to worry about anything.’ And I believed it.” She always believed that she and her brother would share equal inheritance from their parents.”Life with Rohan has been good, but like everyone else, we have our own financial struggles. We both work hard to maintain our household, and while we’re not wealthy, we’ve managed to get by without needing much help from anyone. I never expected any kind of inheritance from my parents, as I was under the impression that whatever they had would be shared equally between my brother and me. But that belief was shattered recently when I accidentally came across their will.”
Anika continued, “I was visiting my parents when I found the will in a drawer. I wasn’t snooping; I was simply looking for some old documents my mother asked me to retrieve. When I saw the will, I was curious and thought nothing of reading it. After all, they are my parents, and I had always assumed that everything they had would be divided fairly between my brother and me. But when I read the document, my heart sank.” Anika’s parents had different plans about it.”My parents had decided to leave everything—our family home, the land, the savings, and even some precious heirlooms—to my brother.